It's 2015!

Hey! It is now the year 2015! been a long time since i blog. too many things to write. too many happenings! one monumental things is i had a baby! Rafaeyel was born on March 22, 2015 at 5:20pm, Latifa Hospital Dubai! details in my next blog (i hope!)see ya!

fed up!

what's new? nothing is new. same old story. same issue. same conversation. i am fed up of this issue. i am fed of trying to understand the situation. bakit ba sa tuwing mawawalan ka ng trabaho nagiging ganito tayo. diba dpat sanay na ako. dapat madali na para sa kin ito, pero hindi eh. madamot ka kasi.

2011 -2012 highlights

It's 2013 and I missed a whole year of blogging. Too many things going on in my life that I didn't know how to write them. Let us start on the latter part of 2011. I remember mentioning in my previous blogs that this marriage is going into a meltdown. Why? Because that is what I think it is. Imagine your husband, telling your mother that he's done and fed up, that he wanted leave me. Shocked? Not really. It was somewhat a relief. But then, he changed his mind. He took it back. Maybe because he found out I was sick. Well, not dying, yet! In Sept 2011, I was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism. Main factor: Stress! Had to be under medication and regular check up every month. In Dec 2011, I managed to bring my mother and nephew here in Dubai for a 3-month visit. I've been wanting to take her here but she keeps refusing. I guess she got fed up and wanted to relax so she agreed to come. Funny thing is they even had the Showtime host on the same flight! Christmas and New Year of 2011 was the happiest. My mom enjoyed the weather. We visited lots of places. In 2012, she celeberated her birthday here, twice! I guess she was touched. Shaila came and visited Dubai too. Other highlights for 2012... In May 2012, was forced to resigned from a company I served for 9 nine years. Details will tell you in the next post. Also in the same month, my brother-in-law's family finally came to Dubai. I was out of job for 3 months. A few days before I return my vehicle and visa cancellation, I got a job. Office job. Sales Administrator cum Personal Assistant. Good offer. I didn't start until last week of September. So in total, 4months of being a bum :). Anyway, once I started everything became ok. Oh, let me not forget... in July when all my hopes are fading. I started going to church everyday and pray the rosary and pledge to do it continously. Well, that's all for now. Will give more details on my next blog. Be humble, be content and you will be happy!

business!

nakakatuwa...may nag order ng embotido at na sold out lahat! amazing! may second order pa! may isa pa akong business na pinaplano sana mag-materialize! wish me luck!

Why Men Drive Us Insane?

I came across this article and i agree to it...want to share with you.. repost from MSN website: By: May Rostom I love men. I love men with all my heart. Even when they stink and even when they are complete jerks that don’t deserve to be even looked at, I still manage to see the good in them. You guys are great and amazing but you sure do drive us crazy. Your brain is assembled quite differently than ours and we love to hate that. The one thing we’ve been keeping from you though, you sure know how to tick us off in less than 30 seconds. Whether you’re dark, tall, and handsome, or short, geeky, and proud, you all share the same qualities, or shall I say defects?!? You panic when something goes wrong or not according to plan but hide it under you oh-so-cool exterior. You mishandle situations but pretend to know it all. You don’t listen to anybody but yourself and Andy Gray on Sky Sports. Before you think I'm some sexist freak that feeds on men’s worst qualities, no that’s not entirely true (*smirks sarcastically*). You accuse us of nagging when reality is you refuse to listen and compromise. You're really stubborn when it comes to something we’ve asked you to do a certain way. C’mon, why on earth would we repeat ourselves, nobody likes that, not even women. You are the inventors of “it’s my way or the highway”! What happened to middle ground, you know, the fast lane, somewhere in the middle we can both use? As women, it was kind of inflicted upon us to do everything around the house, and we don’t hate it. We either get someone to help or just suck it up and do it anyway as you balance your can of coke on your belly and watch TV. What really pisses us off? You complain about the house not being clean “enough”, the food not being cooked like “mama’s hot meal”, and that we nag on and on about how you don’t listen. It’s like men were born to do nothing but criticize women and expect them to just shut up about it. When it comes to their “Bros”, no they’re perfectly fine, even when they’re shooting coke out of their noses at some silly Family Guy episode. What is it with men and their bros?! There’s a whole code about it, tons of sitcoms and movies, and books too! I’m sure it’s an important relationship in their life, but should that relationship be far more important than their better half? I don’t know what it is. I don’t know what it is that you do that makes us over-look all your childish behavior and constant bullying. I don’t know why you like your friends more than us, I don’t know why it’s “bros over hoes”, I even don’t know why you keep fronting and pretending everything’s ok when beneath the surface it’s falling apart, but men, we love you. We like you the way you are; we accept you wholly and fully. We will take a bullet for you; only if you deserve it, and when you’re not looking we have always have your back, so why aren’t you loyal to us? Why don’t you appreciate us? Why don’t you try making us your “bro” we might turn out to be cool and funny when we’re not nagging. You might appreciate the 200 brain cells we have left after smashing our heads against a wall amidst conversation last night. You might actually WANT to help us when you get to hear us and carefully listen to how bad our day was. Whatever it is, you’re not perfect and we aren’t either, the only difference is we don’t rub it in your face at the nearest chance we get so cut us some slack and stop driving us crazy before we REALLY have an excuse to go koko on you!

almost!

hahaha...i didnt realize that its been a year since i last blogged. and because of these, i almost forgot the username and password! hahaha... anyway, i'm back and you will see more of me now... dami ng kaganapan sa buhay ko na di ko naisulat. di bale, pwede na ulit! keep reading!

back to reality!

magisisimula na ulit ang drama ng buhay ko!ano ba ang dapat gawin? ang tama pero di kumpleto o ang mali na kumportable at payapa?ako ba talaga ang dapat sisihin sa lahat ng mga paghihirap?